Category Archives: Scorpio

Impossible – A Word Without Meaning

Merriam-Webster’s online dictionary defines “impossible” as: ” incapable of being or of occurring or felt to be incapable of being done, attained, or fulfilled.”  It’s a word that is frequently used by many people. Yet, as history has shown us, time and again, many things that were once considered “impossible” have become not just possible but commonplace.
Before the Wright Brothers developed the first gas motorized and manned airplane in 1903, these comments were made:
Heavier than air flying machines are impossible.”  Lord Kelvin, president, Royal Society, 1895
Flight by machines heavier than air is impractical and insignificant, if not utterly impossible.”  Simon Newcomb, Director, U.S. Naval Observatory, 1902
After aerial flight was proven to be possible:
The aeroplane is the invention of the devil and will never play any part in such a serious business as the defence of a nation.”  Sir Sam Hughes, Canadian Minister of Defence, 1914
By no possibility can the carriage of freight or passengers through mid-air compete with their carriage on the earth’s surface. The field for aerial navigation is then limited to military use and for sporting purposes. The former is doubtful, the latter is fairly certain.”  Hugh Dryden, 1908
The [flying] machines will eventually be fast; they will be used in sport but they should not be thought of as commercial carriers.”  Octave Chanute, 1910
Regarding space travel:
I am bold enough to say that a man-made Moon voyage will never occur regardless of all scientific advances.”   Lee De Forest, “the father of electronics”
There is no hope for the fanciful idea of reaching the Moon because of insurmountable barriers to escaping the Earth’s gravity.”  Forest Ray Moulton, astronomer, 1932
Space travel is utter bilge.”  Richard Woolley, Astronomer Royal, 1956
As we all know today, on July 21, 1969, Neil Armstrong became the first man to walk on the moon.
As for computers, something that we all take for granted today:
There is no reason anyone would want a computer in their home.”  Ken Olson, president, chairman and founder of Digital Equipment Corp., 1977
I think there is a world market for maybe five computers.” Thomas Watson, chairman of IBM, 1943
People who use the word “impossible” only demonstrate their lack of vision and limited imagination – and to some extent, their arrogance. For anyone to assume that what they know now is all there is to know is arrogant. There is only one thing that is certain and that is that we know so very little.
That does not mean that I believe that people should believe everything they hear.  I believe in being open-minded, not gullible.  For instance, I believe that it’s possible for people to possess certain psychic abilities.  The human mind is something that we do not fully understand yet and there have been numerous studies that support the existence of telepathy, ESP, remote viewing, and telekinesis.  But I don’t believe that every person who calls themselves a psychic is genuine.  Psychic mediums in particular bother me.  I have a difficult time believing in a medium who starts off a reading by asking a person whether their deceased loved one’s name starts with a “K” or a “L”.  If they are capable of receiving messages from a departed loved one, I would think that the first name of the person they have contacted would be the one piece of information that comes in crystal clear.  But unlike James Randi, I’m not willing to label all of them frauds.  I am still searching for that one gifted person who will be able to tell me something specific and relevant without asking me any questions.  I am keeping my mind open. (This post originally appeared on my website –

Scorpios – Understanding the Sign

Let me begin by cautioning readers that simply because a person is born under the Sun Sign of Scorpio does not mean that he or she will have all of the traits usually associated with Scorpios.  Serious astrology is much more complex than that.  The position of the Moon (which is said to affect emotions and desires), the positions of the planets in houses, and so forth all matter.  Furthermore, astrology is not the only thing that affects someone’s personality.  We are all affected by our life experiences, our associations and connections with family, friends, and a slew of other people.  Astrology, in my opinion, is only another tool to understand yourself and others. That is also the opinion of those who practice psychological astrology which is largely based on the findings of Carl Jung, the father of analytical psychology.

That being said, Scorpio is probably the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac.  Almost everyone automatically associates the sign with words such as “hot-tempered” and “passionate”, and many people make the mistake of assuming that “passionate” refers only to a Scorpio’s sexual nature.  However, the passion of a Scorpio extends far beyond the bedroom.  A true Scorpio is passionate about almost anything that he/she considers important, which can range from world politics to the dress that she absolutely must have or the video game that he’s intent on winning.  They feel and speak in terms of “love” and “hate” whether they are describing a pair of shoes or a movie or a political candidate.  “Wishy-washy” is not a term that applies to a true Scorpio.

 When it does come to sexual matters, Scorpios are not born great lovers; they learn like everyone else.  Many just seem to learn faster and have greater stamina than most.  But sex and love are two very different things to a true Scorpio.  To have their bodies does not mean that you’ve won their hearts.  Even if they exhibit jealousy and possessiveness, it does not necessarily mean that they love you.  Scorpios are territorial by nature and they don’t like feeling  as though someone has crossed the boundaries that they set.  Or their behavior could simply be a result of their egos being bruised.  They are indeed a paradox because for all their emotional intensity and the fact that their relationships seem to involve so much drama, most true Scorpios seek peace in love — internal peace at the level of their souls. 

 Scorpio is the only sign of the zodiac that has two ruling planets–Mars and Pluto (now considered a non-planet but still there)–AND is associated with two symbols:  the earth-bound Scorpion and the more exalted Eagle.  (Some astrologers, such as Linda Goodman, have also added a third symbol–the gray lizard–to describe those who fall somewhere between the Scorpion and the Eagle.) 

The Scorpion represents Scorpio’s raw, earthbound nature which is associated with all of those keywords that pop into the minds of those who think that they know this sign–sensual, passionate, unforgiving, revengeful, powerful.   They have a kind of magnetism that attracts people to them and some of them have become quite skilled at fooling people into thinking that they are friendly, charming, and gracious, often witty and funny.   But their true nature is very different than the persona they often display to the world.   They have learned how to survive–even thrive–in the world that they are forced to live in, but they have always known that they are different than most people.   So while many people might call a Scorpio a friend, there are very few people that a Scorpio considers a true friend.  A true friend is someone who you can share your innermost secrets with and Scorpios find it difficult to share the secrets that lie deep within their hearts.  They doubt that many would understand and they feel that most people can’t be trusted with those secrets.   Whether it’s because they experienced some sort of betrayal early in their lives (they have extremely long memories) or have only witnessed the betrayal of others, the fact remains–Scorpios do not trust easily.   When it comes to love, trust remains an issue.  “Complete trust is a difficult thing for a Scorpio to achieve, even in matters of the heart; perhaps especially in matters of the heart since being in love made one more vulnerable to extreme hurt and disappointment.”  (from “Scorpio Love” by S.Tamanaha)

 In all fairness to Scorpios, though, it should be mentioned that their distrust often stems from the fact that they are extremely sensitive souls.  They feel more intensely than most other signs and an act of betrayal wounds them deeply–it injures their hearts and scars their souls.  This is why when they are injured, they find it difficult, often impossible, to forgive.  Also, once injured, they become reluctant to fully trust their hearts and souls to another again.  Some Scorpios turn bitter and poison all of their relationships with that bitterness.  They keep their relationships shallow so as not to feel intense emotions and sometimes turn to alcohol and narcotics to numb the pain.  They can become obsessed with revenge which, in their minds, is really justice.  They become the classic example of the dark earthbound Scorpion who self-destructs.  Think of that old story about the scorpion who asked a frog (or a crocodile in some versions) for a ride across the river and then stung the frog when they were in the middle of the river.  “Why did you do that?” the dying frog asked.  “Now we will both die.”  “I could not help myself,” the Scorpion replied.  “It is my nature.”   But if you think that you can help this type of Scorpio see the error of his/her ways,—if you think that you can be the one to rescue them from themselves,—think twice and then think some more.  Rather than you lifting them up, these Scorpios will often drag you down into that dark place where they reside.  The truth is, Scorpios must heal themselves.  They have the power to do so.  They can decide to become that exalted Eagle.  But THEY must decide. 

 When they are troubled, they tend to brood.   This is a trait that arises out of their inability to trust which makes them hesitant to confide in others.  As a result, they have gotten into the habit of working out their problems on their own in their minds.   Also, the truth is that no one else’s opinion matters much to them.  It’s not that they are arrogant.  It’s simply that they aren’t the type to take a course of action because it’s considered the right thing to do by other people.  They want to make up their own minds.  They are also stubborn and don’t like to be told what they can and cannot do.  They’re not trying to be rebellious or difficult.  They are just fully aware of their abilities and their limitations.  They are also fully aware of their faults but they don’t appreciate it if someone else points those faults out to them. 

They are also blessed (some would say cursed) with a kind of sixth sense–an ability to see the motives behind the actions and words of others.  It’s not magic or a form of ESP.  They can’t read minds although it appears that way sometimes.  It’s just that they have an extremely keen sense of perception and strong intuitive powers.  They study people (that’s often the reason behind that infamous Scorpio stare)  and they can feel which ones are being pretentious or untruthful, which ones you can trust and which ones you should stay away from.  For some Scorpios, this sixth sense seems to be something that they were born with.  For others, it develops over time.  Whether you call it intuition or just being tuned in to people’s “vibes”, all true Scorpios have it.   This is the reason why it’s difficult to lie to a Scorpio–they can feel that something is wrong.  They may not know what it is exactly, but they know.  And then they will begin to investigate, to question, to test their theory.  If they find out that they were right–and they always find out–then betrayer beware.   Almost everyone has heard about Scorpio’s temper but it’s often what happens after the explosion that can be even more unnerving.  Wrongdoers who are lucky (if you can call it that), will simply cease to exist in Scorpio’s mind.  They become ghosts.  If the betrayer is at a party or some other gathering with that same Scorpio, the Scorpio will look right through the betrayer as though that person was a pane of glass.  Or the Scorpio may seek revenge.  What form that revenge takes depends on the Scorpio involved.   Some become so obsessed with getting even that they simply won’t care if what they are doing will injure others or even themselves.  Remember the scorpion and the frog?

The Eagle, a symbol of courage and power, represents a more evolved Scorpio.  This Scorpio has learned to rise above the kind of behavior that other Scorpios engage in which often proves to be self-destructive.  Scorpio-Eagles still possess a Scorpio’s basic nature, but they have a clearer vision and more awareness of their power and they have learned how to use that power to improve themselves so that they can be more like the Eagle–majestic, courageous, and free.  Some astrologers have also used the Phoenix to describe this exalted nature of Scorpio–that mythical bird who can die in flames and then rise renewed from its own ashes.  This is actually an apt description of a Scorpio for no matter how dark their past might be, how many mistakes they have made, they have the power to rise again and start fresh.   

        Here’s an example of the difference between an earthbound Scorpio and one who is an Eagle:  A relationship doesn’t work out.  The earthbound Scorpio will do everything in his/her power to “get even” with the mate who betrayed them (even though it’s often the Scorpio’s own jealous and possessive nature that contributed to the failed relationship).  I know one Scorpio woman who spent thousands of dollars to fight her spouse in court over possession of a few pieces of furniture–not because she wanted them but because she knew that he did.  The Scorpio-Eagle, on the other hand, might feel the same anger but will be able to see the bigger picture.  “Spend thousands to go to court over furniture?  Why?  Doesn’t that mean that I’ll have to see him again?  I’d rather spend those dollars on me.  I spent all those years helping him, thinking only of him; now it’s time to take care of me.  I’ll go to the gym, buy some nice clothes, and claim back my life and my individuality.  Let the bimbo that he fooled around with have him.  She actually did me a favor because if he can’t be trusted, then he doesn’t deserve me.  I know that there’s a man out there who will appreciate me and love me as I deserve to be loved.”  This Scorpio-Eagle will prefer never to see her “ex” again but if she is forced to because of children and visitation rights, she’ll make sure that every time her “ex” stops by to pick up the kids, she’s looking better than ever.  

 See the difference?  Scorpio-Eagles still retain a Scorpio’s basic nature – the intense emotions, the desire for revenge – but do not allow those emotions and desires to control them.  They will not allow depression or self-pity to immobilize them; to do so would be the same as allowing the “enemy”, the person who hurt them, to win, and Scorpios do not like to lose.  They will not commit senseless acts of revenge that could destroy their own lives.  Any acts of revenge that they engage in will also benefit them in the long run.  If someone tells them that they can’t make it on their own or that they are unattractive or unintelligent, they will use their power to prove those people wrong and improve their own lives as a result.  Eagles do not run and hide from adversity or problems or pretend that those problems don’t exist.  (That would make them like ostriches – a bird whose wings are useless and who are fast runners but choose to become immobilized when faced with real danger.)  True Eagles face their problems and then use their inner power to conquer any obstacles so that they can finally fly free.  Like the eagle who soars high above the earth, the Scorpio-Eagle is able to rise above all that chains others to the ground and to see the bigger picture.


Astrology – reality or ridiculous?

Many people have asked me why I believe in astrology.  The concept of astrology has always made sense to me.  Most people accept the fact that the gravitational pull of the Moon and the Sun affects the ocean’s tides—or, more accurately, the rise and fall of the ocean.  Why wouldn’t the same gravitational forces and those of the planets affect the development of the brains, and therefore the personalities, of human beings who spend the first nine months of their lives in water?  Why wouldn’t it affect the behavior of people since the human body is made up of more than 60% water?  I’m not saying that astrology itself will reveal the entire personality of a person.  Everyone is affected by external forces such as upbringing and life experiences.  However, I’ve come to believe that astrology can often explain why people who are born under different signs, even those raised together, react differently to such external forces and how they are inclined to deal with these forces and their individual problems. 

Take my older sister, for example, who is a Sagittarius.  We grew up in the same household; we even hung out together while she was in middle school and high school.  She has those Sagittarius traits of being too trusting, or gullible if you want to refer to it that way, is a bit clumsy, has a tendency to say things the wrong way, and gets physically ill when her environment is emotionally gloomy or pessimistic.  I am Scorpio, and it drives me crazy when she trusts or believes in people that I know (and have told her) can’t be trusted or believed and when she allows the gloominess of others to stress her out.  It frustrates me when, even after discovering that she shouldn’t have been so trusting, she hesitates to stand up to the person.  She often thinks that I’m too hard, that I should let bygones be bygones, and can’t understand why I’m so “different” and not more interested in marriage.  I often feel that although she’s older than I am, I have to look out for her because she’s so naïve, I see no reason to let bygones be bygones since I hate it when wrongdoers walk away believing that they got away with something, and I know that she’ll never understand me if I try to explain to her that I’m not opposed to marriage—I just don’t want to be married for the sake of being married.  I’m more interested in finding that person who instinctively understands my heart and soul and accepts me for who I am because a couple of times during my younger and less wiser years, I tried to make myself fit into someone else’s image of me and it made me miserable and resentful.  So I would rather be alone and occasionally lonely than stuck in a relationship with the wrong person for the wrong reason and miserable every day.

On the other hand, there are aspects of our personalities that reflect our personal life experiences.  Sagittarius women are not supposed to be exceptionally great housekeepers, but somewhere in my sister’s life, she became germ phobic and her house is always clean.  My home, which is supposed to be clean and orderly, is definitely not because my life experiences have made me put other things—such as work—higher up on my list of things to do.  I have stacks of paper everywhere. 

So yes, I believe that an individual’s basic personality can be affected by the positions of the Sun and Moon and planets but I look at astrology as a tool for understanding myself and others.  It’s not the only tool that I use.  As I said, people are affected by external factors:  happy home vs. a broken home, doting parents vs. strict parents, good friendships vs. “friends” who lead you down the wrong path.   Also, trying to understand a person just by considering his or her Sun Sign is akin to looking at a blurred or torn photograph.  To see the entire picture, from an astrological viewpoint, you need a natal chart which will show where the Moon and all of the other planets were at the time of birth.   Finally, no, I don’t think that astrology can predict your future.  It might be able to indicate such things as when your energy level might be low because of the expected positions of the Sun and Moon and planets, but your future…that’s something that will happen because of decisions and choices that you make.  It’s neither carved in stone nor dictated by the stars.